Chinese Parent Cafes Bring Community to Families at Joy Lok FRC

Chinese families participate in a Chinese Parent Cafe at Joy Lok LFC

Chinese families participate in a Chinese Parent Cafe at Joy Lok LFC

Excerpted from an article by Be Strong Families

For the 2017-2018 school year, Chinese Parent Cafes have brought a new light to the Chinese families at Joy Lok Family Resource Center (FRC), a resource center in the heart of San Francisco Chinatown. Joy Lok Family Resource Center, operated by Wu Yee Children's Services, provides services such as educational play groups, lending toy and book libraries, and public benefits assistance to the families in both Chinese and English. The Chinese Soup Gatherings for the Soul at Joy Lok FRC have already brought in significant feedback from both the staff and families, and the staff are already seeing an impact and benefits through parent engagement, with the Chinese Parent Cafes process and materials tailored to the Chinese communities.  Lena Yu, Joy Lok FRC Manager states, “We seldom have time to take a pause and be in our own skin. The Chinese Parent Cafe model values parent’s experiences and the strengths they bring to the table. The Chinese parent questions are thought-provoking and forces us to dig deep, like soul searching for parents!  When parents go through this parent cafe experience, they end up more aware, focused and determined for themselves, benefiting everyone in the family unit.”

The main benefit of having the Chinese Parent Cafes available to the Chinese communities is that they are culturally and linguistically relevant.  Families and staff prefer this family engagement platform because it helps them to overcome cultural and language barriers immigrant families often experience during their acculturation process. “I think the cafe will impact the lives of the Chinese parents and children, because the café agenda is very different from most of the general support group, ” Christy Li, Joy Lok FRC Family Support Coordinator states. The Chinese Parent Cafes agenda and materials are meeting the needs of the Chinese families, through connecting with their own peers to learn with each other, the families engage in the Zuoren, continuously learning and self-cultivating. The families are able to apply what they learn in the Chinese Parent Cafes to support other families that they will meet in their immigration and child rearing journey in the United States.  

At the same time, the family advocates and program staff working with the families become more skilled to tailor the Chinese Parent Cafés to meet the Chinese families’ aspirations to be confident leaders in their own family unit and community. As a result of the 35 cafes at Kai Ming Head Start, family advocates were able to provide additional community resources to the participants in areas of appropriate discipline, child development, emotional needs of children, financial services resources, immigration resources, labor law, legal services resources, positive approaches on parenting and workshops on American and Chinese education systems.

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